JWS why do jws view anyone who just wants to stop being a jw the same as adultere, drunkard, liar, pervert?

You actually did yourself and your soul a favor. They are so ingrained in what they believe - that is why they are behaving this way. I'm glad you are searching the truth and getting out of a falsehood religion. I am not trying to slam them, it's just the truth. God will provide you with a new set of friends and Christians whom you can call family. Don't give up or lose faith.